Sit back for a minute, because you haven’t heard what I’m about to say before.   Ever wonder why it seems natural to see race, but not to see racism? Look, none of us chooses the family we’re born into. If you’re white, and probably even if you’re not, you were born into a ready made pattern of racism. I’m not judging you, but I am going to bear witness to you. I’m going to tell you straight up that learning this will change your world if you let it. Racism is hard to see because it acts like a family dynamic.  Whaaaaat are you talking about? Ok. Big words. But stay with me. Most families go through times when they’re getting along pretty…